It's so hard to be a parent of an autistic child. There is an 85% divorce rate for parents with autistic kids. It's very hard. So is ADHD. I have Jessica with Autism, and Philip and Thomas with ADHD. I think you have to take it a day at a time, and not lose perspective. I have a strong marriage, and my faith in God. I feel this is so tragic, and such a terrible loss. But the poor mom must have been overwhelmed and had no help. She should have given her kids up to foster care, not killed them.